A Final Choice Among The Alternatives.

Many times during life, an individual will find themselves in a very disconcerting position to make a decision on a certain matter. At this point, an individual must apply opinion to rely on the heart to base their decision on a sense of emotion, or their mind to choose the most promising and realistic resolution. The ability of an the human race to make a reasonable decision that goes beyond the limits that impulse has on the mind, but had led humanity to greater intellectual heights. An intellectual decision is of one that based off of fact and the most logical aspect of a situation. This may at times be very beneficial in the way that it leads to an almost always positive outcome in the way of looking out for the future. Although proving to be a form of decision making that is at most times advantageous, it does in fact leave some space for error. 

There are at times also some moments that one's feelings toward a circumstance point in the direction of action. An emotional decision is characterized by instinctive actions of the heart that are influenced by the life of that particular individual. All decisions made emotionally are in my definition, the way of natural reaction a person makes to the situation they encounter. At most all moments, this could be the most moral way of decision but is often proven most accountable to fault due to the harsh effect of reality and the current state of society. The downfall of having to face the reality of every decision being that of the heart is what distinguishes emotion against intellect, and what leads to the creation of a free mind and spirit. 

Intellectual decisions, bottom line, are some of the most common among the human race since they have proven to be most favorable to the future of an individual in the way of what is to result. But in fact there may be flaw since this at most times, this is not what an individuals heart yearns for. Emotional decisions are what leads to the inclusion of a persons entire faith to be poured into every once of the decision process, and in turn an outcome that will fulfill the happiness of the whole soul. I believe always make the decision that includes the most happiness and emotion without being so instinctive as to negatively affect the outcome of the situation. 

"Feelings are not supposed to be logical. Dangerous is the man who has rationalized his emotions.”

-David Borenstein.

An effective example of a situation that has the inclusion of both forms of decision making is if someone was left on the verge of their life. In this situation you have a group of family, friends, and loved ones pondering the fate of an individuals life that has encountered a fatal accident leaving them to rely on a life support system. This group must decide the fate by going by the intellect of the situation that the damage is irrevocable, thus shutting the system down and letting the person go. Another path of fate though may be the way of emotional decision. This would leave the individual to wait on that sometimes unbelievable and extraordinary touch of fate that renews the persons life and allows them to live once again. This is unfortunately a circumstance that many individuals may face in their life, but I believe that everyone should have faith in life without the absence of intellect. 

"Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own."

Companionship;

often associated with the contextual terms such as friendship, familiar bonds, and close relationships with another, describes the emotion of mutual feelings of trust and affection toward another close  individual. Companionship is one trait that I believe all humans need to possess or encounter at one point in their life since: fills the void of loneliness in the soul, leads to eternal relationships, and is what connects two halves to make one heart pulsate in unison to the beat of love. 

From personal experience I am able to testify to the power of having a close companion as an influence to the heart and mind. The friendship that develops among two individuals is something that is required by all people in order to make people accustomed to interaction and collaboration with other people in society. Just the process of making a companion is intricate enough to shape a person into the person they will develop to be someday. Upon meeting a new person an individual encounters thoughts of curiosity and interest into this new individual, and next the steps leading up to the completion of learning enough about this person to where as that either individual can make a judgement of their liking towards the other. There is that possibility that the two individuals have compatible personalities and become more involved in a friendship. 

Love truly is a condition of the heart that relies on one individuals contentedness to make the happiness of another to be entirely possible. Certain individuals contain a void that engulfs their heart with a sense of loneliness that is at a constant state of yearning of having a companion there to share and sympathize the pain and regain them to full pleasure with themselves. In the novel, Frankenstein, by author Mary Shelley, the monster feels desolate at heart and yearns for the emptiness of the trench of his heart filled with rejection, hurt, and pain to be soothed by the friendly atmosphere of a loving female companion. The development of a friendship not only fulfills the requirement of taking away the pain of rejection and lonesomeness but may also have the possibility of at some point take on the potential of being a loving and affectionate relationship. 

The power of an affectionate relationship has enough pull to entrance and rule over the heart. The benefits of such a relationship may truly be what make a loving relationship such a sought after concept in life. Finding "True Love" includes the accompaniment of the ability to trust and confide in another life companion, share all emotions, and find the other piece of soul that concludes the illusion of a complete heart. Finding that one person in life is an impossible mission, but has the reward of finding the hearts other half and having someone there as one heart beating to the song of true love. 

Have You Forgotten How You Would Make Me Feel When You Drag My Spirit Down?

Rejection: to not accept something: to refuse to accept, agree to, believe in, or make use of something, e.g. because it is not good enough or not the right thing. 

Rejection in reality is something much greater, a essential step in the pursuit of success. It's something natural that an individual would take this to heart, but in my opinion I use as rejection as personal motivation. When someone refuses to accept or believe in another person, it would be most beneficial to instead channel the feelings that nothing is ever good enough to make the heart stronger and more empowered to be greater and reach higher. This insight is not at first what occurs to an individual when they are just let down, but I believe that if everyone looked out for one another, this generation would unite and reach higher limits as one. 

I had been thinking about the  concept of rejection and by fate possibly came across a song. The name is "Who's Laughing Now?" by the artist Jessie J. This song strongly describes what true rejection is, while also incorporating bits of motivation. The video that corresponds with the song is perfect for depicting rejection by peers in what place of course? School. The first twenty to thirty seconds show us into the world of this famous artist that struggled with the pressure of rejection during her younger ages. One great feature that I loved about the lyrics of this particular song are that the artist states that she is thankful for the rejection since it has helped her to make her fame and confidence. 

Being thankful for rejection is the first step to recovery and next step in the pursuit to being even more successful. The first step in making rejection a positive influence is to take the outcome in stride and be almost thankful for the new motivation. Next, the individual should do everything in their heart, without changing who they are, and make themselves stronger. Finally that person should keep the incident fresh in their mind as a constant reminder to keep rising higher and higher and be the best they can possibly accomplish to be.